A Masterclass For Men & Women
Where You No Longer Let Chaos Choose Your Partner
Friday, August 7th | 1PM EST | Via Zoom | $55
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You're sick of it. The situationships. The emotionally unavailable person. The one who doesn't choose you.
Or maybe it's more of the high sensation cycle of "omg there's so much chemistry", going a million miles an hour, and turning this person into a limerence object before you even really know them.
If you look back on your relationship history, there's likely some sort of connecting thread through all of the romantic partners you've chosen.
Like some twisted joke from the universe where you keep meeting the same partner, but in different bodies.
You know the feeling. When you are connecting with someone and there's this quiet, subtle voice that says "something doesn't feel quite right here."
But you ignore it. You gaslight yourself. And you give into the flood of chemicals and eros that flow between you two.
You wake up in the morning thinking of them and your heart flutters at the fantasy you are already building around them as adrenaline rushes through your body every time their name pops up on your phone.
This is trauma. This is your wounding trying to finally resolve through another person. But you can't help but give in.
You end up diving into the connection and it ends in heartbreak, shattering and another round of picking up the pieces.
Your nervous system is still calibrated towards attracting the same dynamic that caused the original rupture in childhood. You haven't actually changed that wiring.
Of course, I don't view this as necessarily a 'bad thing'. We cannot avoid our soul lessons that come in the form of people.
You will learn how to truly regulate and recalibrate your nervous system to accurately discern safety from threat.
To no longer be drawn to emotional unavailability, instability, toxicity and patterns driven from your childhood trauma.
This will not just be informational, we will be working directly with your nervous system to re-pattern your relationship with romantic partnership and attraction.
Mind you, this cannot be completely rewritten in a single session (obviously).
HOWEVER, we can build an embodied awareness that helps you no longer doubt your own discernment and decode the signals in your body so you can understand what is actually happening when you go to connect with someone, allowing you to make an aligned decision from that point.
We will also be reorienting the way you relate to both 'relationships' and your own Soul/soul mission.
Nervous System Physiology
You will learn how to truly regulate and recalibrate your nervous system to accurately discern safety from threat, titrate high sensation and stop being attracted to relationships that are bad for you.
Attachment Wiring
We will begin to work with your attachment system to no longer be drawn to emotional unavailability, instability, toxicity and patterns driven from your childhood trauma.
Core Wound Psychology
Understand the psychology of the core wound of both men and women — how it's uniquely been coded into your system, and how to work with it.
Soul Evolution
Reorient the way you relate to both 'relationships' and your own Soul/soul mission. See where the fantasy of 'the one' has you abandoning your own aliveness and where you are not fully leading your life.
You completely abandon yourself and leave your body in the excitement and cascade of hormones when you meet a potential partner.
You daydream of this person obsessively and check your phone 10x/day to see if they texted you back.
You are stuck in psychological games of 'if they don't text me in x amount of time, then I will not answer for y amount of time.'
You are not actually leading your life and are centering a huge portion of your existence around 'finding your person.'
You can't discern between trauma and intuition in connection and don't trust yourself when vetting a new person.
You keep attracting the same types of people with the same archetypal patterns in connection.
You'll be able to feel the gravitational pull with someone you like, and still stay connected to your body and your discernment.
You can catch yourself going into fantasy/obsession, and consciously reorient yourself back to your body and your life.
You know, somatically, the visceral sensation of what safety feels like versus chaos/confusion/trauma-bonding.
You deeply trust your body and know how to decode the signals your system is sending you in connection.
You know your needs, standards and non-negotiables in relationship AND can actually stand behind them without settling or collapsing.
You have the tools to build the somatic capacity to no longer leave yourself just to get a breadcrumb of connection.
Discern WHY your body is activated and move accordingly with that information.
I kept choosing partners that were not actually the right person for me.
The 'almost' person. The one who my body never quite fully felt safe with. The one where chemistry and intensity was confused with compatibility.
I went through enough of these experiences to know, with painstaking precision, what this patterning looks like for me and how to choose differently.
There are a few universal principles and skills that we can develop to end this cycle once and for all.
The Details
A Workshop on Somatic Dating & Vetting For Union
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Where You No Longer Let Chaos Choose Your Partner
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